The International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women was observed on Monday 25 November. This date also marked the start of the annual United Nations 16 days of Activism for No Violence against Women and Children campaign, which concludes on 10 December, International Human Rights Day.

This annual campaign focuses on raising awareness of the devastating impact that gender-based violence and femicide (GBVF) has on women and children, and society in general.

Alderman Sakkie Franken, Executive Mayor of the Overberg District Municipality, expressed concern over the “unacceptable number of reported cases of abuse against women and children” in the past year. Some of these include the case of Deveney Nel who was allegedly murdered by a boy she had known, Dimpho Skelenge, allegedly killed by her ex-boyfriend, and that of Bianca Adonis who survived being bashed over the head with a large stone or brick, assaulted and doused in petrol.

“This must end now!” he declared. “Today (Monday 25 November) marks the beginning of our concerted efforts to say NO to violence against women and children. I urge every man to reject Gender-Based Violence (GBV) not just during this campaign, but every day. As men we are meant to protect our women and children, yet too often we are the abusers. This must change.”

Franken added it is crucial to recognise that mental health plays a significant role in the cycle of violence. “Many perpetrators of GBV struggle with unresolved trauma, anger and other mental-health issues.

“Addressing these underlying problems through counselling and support can help prevent future violence. I call on mental-health professionals to join our efforts by providing services to both victims and perpetrators.

“By tackling the root causes of violence, we can create lasting change in our community.”

ODM Deputy Mayor Helen Coetzee spoke on Monday at the “Stand Up, Silence the Violence” event in Caledon Town Hall to launch the 16 days of Activism campaign officially. This is just one of many initiatives by the Overberg District Municipality (ODM). Its Speaker, Cllr Archie Klaas, continues to host dialogues among men to discuss why abuse occurs and how to stop it. These programmes are in partnership with the South African Police Service’s Men For Change programme and the Men’s Sector in the Overberg District.

There is also a strong network of safe houses in the Overberg that work tirelessly to support victims.

Franken urged everyone to participate in events and programmes organised during the 16 days of Activism, speak up and report any incidents they might be aware of, to support the safe houses and spread awareness about GBV. He also called on law enforcement agencies to act swiftly against GBV perpetrators. “Together, we can create a safer, more supportive environment.”

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Major-General Miriam Mochologi, Overberg District Police Commissioner, said although victims of GBV report their cases, the harsh reality is that a large number of victims later withdraw the charges.

“Sadly some victims come back to withdraw cases, some of which involve minor or mentally challenged children, who can’t stand up for themselves.”

She cautioned against this. “Don’t withdraw cases as there is a danger that the perpetrator will kill you one day.”

The district commissioner also urged parents to be aware of their children’s whereabouts at all times and to urge them not to trust strangers. The community is encouraged to report any GBV-related incidents to the nearest police station.

The police emphasised that collaboration across all sectors is crucial to eliminate violence against women and children.

“GBV knows no boundaries,” Mochologi pointed out. “It can affect anyone, regardless of race, age, sexual orientation, religion, gender or socio-economic background.