For many writers the path to publication can be a long and winding one. For one local author, it took a series of small moments, nurtured by family, life experiences, and a deep love of teaching.
Now, in her 50s, Sandbaai resident Candice McKay is proudly sharing her first self-published children’s book, Bernadette the Wall Spider, a project that has come to fruition after years of nurturing the craft of writing. Born and raised with a passion for writing McKay has been writing since her school days.
“In 1989 I wrote an essay called ‘1989 is Mine’ and was chosen, among hundreds of learners, to attend a memory retention and public speaking conference,” she recalled.
“That experience fuelled my love for writing, though I struggled with self-doubt for many years.
“In the early 2000s a poem was published in the South African Anthology of Verse. For years I should’ve been writing, but we’re our own worst enemies and I lacked the confidence.”
It wasn’t until later in life as a mother that McKay truly began to find her voice.
Her journey into children’s literature was inspired by her son, now 15. “When he was little I made it a point to teach him the correct names for animals and creatures. Instead of saying ‘look at that bird,’ I’d tell him exactly what kind of bird it was. It was my way of nurturing his curiosity and love for nature.”
This hands-on approach to teaching and storytelling led to the development of McKay’s writing, with a focus on children’s stories that explore the world around them.
Her first book, Bernadette the Wall Spider, was a labour of love. “It’s based on real-life experiences with my family. For example, everyone in the house is afraid of slugs. They scream for me to come and get them out of the shower if one appears.
“I’ve even named them – Mortimer and his cousin Lucy – and one day I plan to write a story about their adventures.”
The process of writing is deeply personal for McKay.
“I write from experience, from what I see and feel in my own life. It’s a way of bringing the world to children in a fun and educational way.”
The thrill of seeing her work published and receiving feedback from young readers has been incredibly rewarding. “I’ve had children give me their thoughts as I was writing, and seeing their reactions when they see the finished product is the best part of being a writer.”
McKay’s literary journey would not have been possible without the encouragement of her aunt, who has been her biggest supporter for years.
“She’s in her 70s now, and I’ve finally got a book to send her. The dedication in my book is for her – she’s the one who pushed me to write it.”
Outside of writing, the author enjoys family travel and exploring South Africa.
“We’re always on the hunt for hidden gems, especially on dirt roads,” she laughs. “My husband says, ‘If there’s a dirt road out there, you’ll find it!’
“Even as my children grow older, they’re still part of my journey. I use the hashtag #travelinyourownbackyard to share our adventures.” . For more information phone McKay on 072 682 9498
